Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Relationship advice, heart at stake, please HELP!!!?

So theres this girl who I've known now for 1 1/2 years. She got out of a relationship about 7 months and we dated for 2 weeks shortly after. She said during that time that she was falling in love with me, but broke it off and said that she wasnt ready to date anyone yet. It's been 7 months and she says shes still not ready for a relationship. I've told her that I love her and when I ask how she feels, she usually says "I adore you", but has told me that she loves me a couple of times before. I've been hurting for these 7 months, not knowing what might come when she is ready to date someone. I've asked all the questions, but she cant ever seem to give me a straight answer. She hasnt dated anyone else and either have I. We see eachother maybe once every week or two and usually text or talk once a day, though sometimes we go days without any contact. When I ask if she's over me yet and thats why she doesnt talk to me, she says "stop that, I dont like it". A couple of weeks ago I tried to make her jealous and said that I was dating another girl. She didnt answer my text, so I called her and she was crying. Her friends said that she was crying so hard she was puking. She then decided to take a trip to another state to visit with her family as she was so upset about it. I'm going crazy just sitting here and waiting and not knowing what may or may not happen, but I cant bring myself to date someone else because I'm in love with her. She doesnt seem interested half the time, but when we do hangout, she tells me that she feels more comfortable with me than anything else, compliments me by calling me hot and has jumped me on many occasions. When we roughhouse, we usually stare into eachothers eyes for a few seconds and then she kisses me on the forehead because we are just friends and she doesnt want to play it as anything else. So when I bring it up and me moving on to someone else, she gets upset. When I bring it up that I feel like she doesnt like me, she gets upset. Yet, we are not dating and she says shes not ready. Am I just overly freaking out here with trying to guard my heart or does she genuinely seem interested? Please answer guys and girls

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