How can I fit in while still being myself?

As someone who is also different and was made fun of a lot i have learned to accept my differences and make them be what other people admire about me. i also work with children at my church and get along better with the kids and older people but barely know anyone my own age but I'm happy to be me and i don't care how others see me i know who i am and that's what matters :) why fit in when you can stand out?